I’ve known Josh Bain since around 2015 when we were both working at an op shop together. He’s a musician who often performs in Healesville, where he lives. A great guy. We get together every now and then on Sundays. Here’s a bunch of our conversations that I wrote about when I was doing the Diary entries.
Sunday, 10 March, 2024
Had my usual fortnightly lunch with Josh at the Grand in Healesville. I’ve mentioned him before: he’s the muso whose open mic I went to recently. For a muso he’s pretty introverted and taciturn, so I find I have to initiate a lot of topics. Since this was the day after my Teenage Fanclub gig I was happily giving him the review. (Let me now segue into present tense speech) I mention it was a good gig, but it wasn’t Thin Lizzy at Festival Hall in 1980 (my litmus test for a great gig – coz it was). For some reason this reminds Josh of Billy Bragg’s great song New England. Apparently Billy had once said of the song he thought some of the melody was stolen from a Thin Lizzy song. A pretty lateral tangent, but that’s the way Josh’s mind works sometimes and the way our conversations often go. His comment has me thinking of some Lizzy songs that Billy might have been thinking of. Boys Are Back perhaps? Then Josh mentions Kirsty McColl, how she had done a cover of New England. Yes, that’s right, I brighten. She did it more uptempo. But she died in a motorboat accident. Got hit by the propeller. Might’ve been drunk. (Getting a bit stream of consciousness here. Please go with it!) Josh takes another tangent and talks about how Kirsty’s version of the song did some interesting things with the pronouns, because Billy’s version is very much from a man’s perspective and her version alters it to something like third person. I say that’s interesting because most female singers when stuck with a male pov song usually just change the pronouns over; then I mention others, like Emmylou Harris and Sarah Carter of the Carter Family, who sometimes didn’t. I give a favourite example in Rita Chao and the Quests, a cool Chinese garage band from the sixties, who did a great version of Hanky Panky. I love how Rita sings ‘A pretty little girl standin’ all alone/Hey pretty baby can I take you home?’ as is, giving it a delicious lesbian overtone. Josh follows suit with a reference to Cyndi Lauper’s cover of Prince’s When You Were Mine. It occurs to me that this would all be a great topic for an academic paper on ‘Pronouns In Pop Songs’.
Back at Josh’s place, we sit on the wooden veranda, chugging some Asahis, shooting the bull. It’s a hot day, and the folding camp chairs Josh uses aren’t comfortable (I keep telling him to get some rocking chairs – I love rocking chairs), but the shade is good and the Healesville view of trees and wild life is magnificent. It’s the craic. I blabber on about Peter Jackson’s Hobbit movies for some reason. All of a sudden Josh confesses he actually walked out on the first Lord of the Rings films, saying it annoyed him. I’m shocked, genuinely shocked.
Sunday, 21 April, 2024
Caught up with Josh this weekend at Kang’s Chinese, Healesville. Josh told me about a festival he went to on the Easter weekend called ConFest. Billed as ‘Australia’s leading alternative lifestyle festival’, it was held in Woorooma, NSW by the Edwards River. Josh and his friends set up a tent in what was called the ‘tranquility camp’ area. Since they spent their nights playing music and singing songs, things may not have been too tranquil there, but clearly no one minded. Josh said he attended a number of workshops on subjects like spirituality and healing, and even put one of his own on, called Social Dreaming. This was done in a teepee, with Josh instructing his participants in the subject, which he learned from his father. He said his favourite event over the weekend was the Spontaneous Choir, an evolved version of singing in the round, from what I could make of it. He said there were secluded areas along the river for skinny dipping (it was a hot weekend), but he didn’t partake – though he did swim. It sounded like a good time, and Josh has invited me to the next one, which I may attend. The Edwards River has a particular resonance for me because I have a memory of it to do with my parents. The story goes when my mum went to hospital to give birth to my younger brother, Carl, Dad decamped up to Deniliquin with his mates and fished along the Edwards River. Giving birth was purely women’s business back then. Nice one, Dad.






Sunday, 5 May, 2024



Sunday, 19 May, 2024
Had another lunch with Josh in Healesville. He was a little more talkative today. He volunteered the information, out of nowhere, that he had been essentially cyberstalking some woman he knew years ago who he had been in love with at the time. He only remembered her first name, but he knew she had written an article about some poet, and in putting the two names together he got a result. She is married with two kids, but Josh said he might still try contacting her just to catch up. This is classic Josh: always happy to reconnect with old friends and lovers. I know I used the term ‘cyberstalking’, but there’s really nothing sinister about this. Josh hasn’t got an evil bone in his body.



Sunday, 2 June, 2024



Back at Josh’s place on the porch, we discussed the quandary of Josh communicating with that woman he used to be in love with. He still wants to contact her, but now the magnitude of it is starting to hit and he doesn’t know how to do it without coming off like a stalker. I suggest the direct approach, on Facebook. He warms to the idea. We then talk about how crap are Melbourne audiences at live gigs. Josh agrees, saying when he saw The Strokes at the Palais they wondered if the crowd were enjoying the gig, they were so quiet. Welcome to our crap Melbourne audience, Strokes, I say. Josh then mentioned they were supported by Kings of Leon on their first tour. I was envious. After last fortnight’s strike out with the Smiths, Josh admitted he liked a couple of their songs. How Soon Is Now and There Is a Light That Never Goes Out he grudgingly assented to. Said he’ll give them another go. He then talked about the four gigs his old band, The Going Away Party, did before they broke up. At least two were well attended and went off respectably. I asked why they broke up, and it turned out one member, Drew, got a good job offer in Adelaide to teach Ethics at a university. All the members had degrees, including Josh. A Brainy band.
Sunday, 15 June, 2024



I lost all my work today because of a Word malfunction, so I’ll just give the Cliff notes, coz I can’t be fucking bothered re-writing this. There was another Conversation With Josh (#258 I think), something about Josh doing an Andrew Lloyd Webber song from Evita for his next open mic outing. He mentioned seeing Violent Femmes back in 1995 at the Palais, with front row tickets, and the bass player asked his female friend back stage, but she didn’t go. Creepy muso’s. I mentioned seeing Motley Crue there, and they had titty cam. I took pictures. Hair metal was not really my thing, but I read The Dirt and reappraised them and learned to love their sleazy brand of metal.
Sunday, 29 June 2025
Me and Josh were at the Chinese restaurant again because it was my turn to pay and I didn’t want to pay that bloody surcharge the pub pays, alright? Josh seemed to be in one of his extra taciturn moods. His eyes seemed to be looking inward, like he was wrapped up in his own thoughts. I said as much but he denied it, saying he was okay. I must say the meal was extra yummy today. We both always order the same thing: teriyaki chicken, me with a side order of vegetable spring rolls. Best teriyaki ever. I bored Josh with my car talk, then asked him to guess how much I was looking to pay for my car. He first suggested $5000, and I scoffed and pointed upward. He kept adding $5000s, and each time I kept pointing, and his eyes kept getting bigger. He said he’d discovered the pub at Launching Place was putting on open mic nights every Monday and he might go and perform there. He should. I’ll go and see him. He also complained how Ash, the guy who puts on the open mics at the Herd in Healesville, seems to always be putting Josh on first. He’d rather play later, about 8pm, instead of being the ‘warm up’. I told him to tell Ash. I get why he’s annoyed. He probably feels like he’s undervalued, though I know Ash has a lot of respect for Josh’s songs and his performances.



Sunday, 27 July, 2024



Josh doesn’t work, he lives off disability, so any work talk is on my side. I usually just tell him how busy I am with the library job, but I thought this time I’d share some of the good things about it. Like the other day when I was shelving in the children’s section, and a patron just told me out of the blue how much he loves our library, and what a good space it is. I thanked him and then he actually thanked me for my service. Imagine that! Then there was the other time, a week or so ago, when I helped a little boy find a book he was looking for, and he gave me a hug. Besides being nice stories I hadn’t mentioned to anyone before, not even here, I think my ulterior motive in mentioning them was to give Josh a sense of the rewards to be had from work if you’re doing a job you like or love. I think he’s mostly had negative experiences from it, as have most of us I suppose. It doesn’t have to be that way.
Driving back to Josh’s place afterward, I realised he was the first passenger I’d had in my new car. He was duly impressed by it, especially the sound system with built-in subby. He even took a photo of it to send to his friend Peter. He suggested we go out for a longer drive in it next time and maybe we could listen to his Going Away Party album on the sound system as well. It’s definitely a plan. At his place I got around to playing that Blackfeather song for him on my phone. He seemed to recognise it, thought it was okay, but didn’t love it. He then mentioned he’d heard there was going to be a theatrical version of the old TV show The Addams Family coming up in some place in Moonee Ponds. That sounded good to me, so I suggested getting tickets and we’d go. Josh then suggested



inviting Patricia Karvelas to come with us. Back in the day Josh actually went out with the now ABC reporter and TV presenter, and he often talks about her. Apparently she is now a lesbian and has a girlfriend (or wife). I enthusiastically suggested he do that, and she could bring along her wife/girlfriend. Weirdly, this is something I could see Josh doing. I looked forward to grilling Karvelas about her news values and seeming right-wing bias of late. All this caused Josh to describe himself as upper middle class in his values, which chimed well with me because I’ve been thinking exactly the same thing about myself. My background’s working class, but I never identified with it or the middle class – those parma-munching, Pink-loving bogans. My values and aspirations are more upper middle, you know? ‘There’s also a thing called lower upper middle class’, Josh joked, making me laugh. ‘That’s us!’ I retorted, liking this line of conversation very much. ‘We aspire to being upper middle class but we don’t quite have the wealth to make it stick. Thus, we’re lower upper middle class.’ ‘We’re pretenders,’ said Josh. ‘That’s why we get along so well,’ I replied.
When I leave, we usually shake hands, but this time Josh surprised me by giving me a hug. Must have been something in our conversation and the day that resonated with him, like he’d found a book he wanted and was grateful.
Sunday, 11 August, 2024






But most of the talk was around the album we’d just been listening to in the car. It was a rare opportunity having the actual creator of the music there in front of me, and he had a few observations to make. There were things he would have liked to have tweaked: songs where the vocals should have been double tracked, one track that he had wanted to add an extra bass line in, but the producer nixed it. He was proud of his bass lines, since the band didn’t have a bassist, and he’d only had about a week to come up with them, using a borrowed bass. I asked him whether songs from the album got any radio play, and apparently the opening track, Make Up, was played on local community station 3RRR, but apart from that, not much. The band didn’t have a manager, and only did four gigs before they broke up, which is a pity. I asked him what would have happened if they’d had a hit – would they have stayed together, and maybe tried getting a manager and all that showbiz razzamatazz (they broke up because member Drew left for a university post)? He thought maybe. Josh had a mental breakdown sometime after that. I wondered if the breakup contributed to it, but he said nothing. It’s a dark period for him. I hope the drive and revisiting that album helped shake some cobwebs loose for him.
Sunday, 15 September, 20024



Drove up to the Black Spur with Josh and Tony, his old mate. This is a very windey mountain road and it’s not fun to drive on. It didn’t help that, right at the start of the drive, Josh told me he gets car sickness on windey roads. Great. We had a couple of beers at the Black Spur Inn. It was pretty empty. I didn’t see why we couldn’t have done this back in Healesville and avoided the tricky drive. Oh well. We talked a lot about music. Tony’s a fan, and like Josh, a musician. Josh had done the open mic at the Herd in Healesville the other day, but I missed it due to work. He did his crowd favourite, Bogan Rhapsody. Apparently his mate Isak the drummer did a Beatles medley on piano. With all the music trivia we threw about, Tony told me about a site called Songfacts, which deals in these things. I’ll have to check it out. He wants me to make up a compilation of songs for him, possibly on cd or mp3s on a USB stick. I’ve done this for Josh too. I don’t know why these guys, who are into music, have so little of their own. Anyway, I said I would. But he has to tell me what he wants.
A day later, I got a series of texts from Tony. They were a bunch of songs he wanted. Pina Colada Song, a Julio Iglesias song, the Beatles, Umberto Tozzi, then there was some Black Sabbath, Metallica, Run DMC, Dokken, and much, much more. A weird list. Tony’s into a lot of schmaltz. Julio, Kenny G? And then for contrast, there’s heavy metal. It’s all light or dark with Tony. Nothing in between. I wondered where Tony had heard these songs, they all seemed so random. I mean, Fooled Around and Fell In Love by Elvin Bishop is a good song (I have it), but it’s pretty obscure, and from the seventies. It was at this point I decided to check out Songfacts, that site he mentioned. And what do you know, there was a bunch of the songs Tony had asked for. So that’s where he gets them from. Interesting site. Think I’ll dip into it from time to time to load up on more song trivia.
Sunday, 6 October, 2024
It was a rainy day today – it held off for the Grand Final. Josh needed me to pick him up and drive him to our Kang’s Chinese meal today. At Kangs’, over the usual terriyaki chicken, he told me he’d performed at the Herd Grand Final Eve open mic, and it went really well. He was particularly pleased with his singing and garnered some praise for his performance. He also did a cover of The Boomtown Rats’ I Don’t Like Mondays with his mate Isak on piano, which went down a treat. It was apparently a big boisterous crowd too. I wish I was there, but I was consoling my sister that night.
Sunday, 10 November, 2024



Josh has got an open mic at the Herd tomorrow for what down here we call Cup Eve. The Cup in question being the Melbourne Cup, a horse race carnival that’s been an institution in Australia for over a hundred years. It’s the first Tuesday in November, so it’s gonna be on Election Day for the US as well. It’s a holiday here. We have a day off for a horse race. Anyway, Josh said he’s gonna do an old song I’ve never heard before, a song that was inspired by a girl he had a crush on many years ago. In fact, she’s the one he had been sort-of cyber-stalking recently and had considered re-connecting with. I plan on being there, so can’t wait to hear it. He also plans on doing another cover, but he wouldn’t tell me what it would be.
I mentioned the recent Baseball World Series that was won by the Dodgers against the Yankees. I asked Josh if he’d ever played a sport and he said some cricket, plus relay sprint. He then regaled me with the story of his Under 16s relay squad and how they lost the finals because of one little slip-up. They would usually say the word ‘go’ when the changeover was being made, but the team leader decided for this time to change it to ‘Jack’. This confused the runners and so on the final changeover, when they were winning, someone forgot the changed word which resulted in the dropping of the baton and they lost. Josh was still clearly angsty about the incident, as you usually are with these childhood memories. They stick in the mind. I liked the story. I told Josh I think it would make a nice short story, like The Loneliness of the Long Distance Runner, the Alan Sillitoe story. I even suggested a title: We Don’t Know Jack.



Sunday, 1 December, 2024
Had lunch at the Grand with Josh this time. Neither of our wanted meals (Josh for Calimari, me for veggie curry) was available due to a large group who seemed to have taken all the popular dishes. So we both settled for good old fish and chips, which took a while in coming, but gave us ample time for talk (and beer drinking). I yapped a bit about the Pearl Jam concert I went to. When I mentioned they played Daughter, one of my favourites, Josh recalled his dad liked that one too. They also did Rear View Mirror, and this prompted Josh to mention the open mic he performed here at the Grand a couple of weeks ago, because some guy also did it there. Josh did his patented, crowd-pleasing cover of I Don’t Like Mondays, accompanied by Isak. He said a duo had a go at the Gordon Lightfoot song If You Could Read My Mind, and weren’t very good. I suggested Josh should cover it himself. He could add the Whitney Houston part (from The Greatest Love of All, which includes a section – ‘I decided long ago…’ – which ‘borrows’ from that song) for a joke. He liked the idea. He confessed one of his songs, the ever-popular Bogan Rhapsody, has a bit in it that he thinks he might have took from an old Jet song. I hadn’t noticed (I’m not much of a Jet fan), but I’ll take his word for it. They all steal from each other.









Sunday, 22 December, 2024



Back at Josh’s place, on the porch with some Asahi’s, I gave Josh my Christmas present for him – the Beatles t-shirt. He liked it, and it fit him well. We got to talking about libraries and research and uni – that kind of thing – and I mentioned the interesting book I got off Lui for my Christmas present, the Capitalism A Horror Story book by Jon Greenaway. The basic thesis is that Capitalism shares many of the traits of horror movie conventions. There’s a Capitalist connection for zombies, witches, ghosts, Aliens, and all the other horror touchstones. Josh was intrigued and mentioned how his dad had been working on a thesis about American comic strips and their association with politics. But he never finished it and died with it incomplete. Josh said the work must be somewhere in a box somewhere around the house, and I encouraged him to please find it. I’d like to read it.



Sunday, 12 January, 2025






Back at the house I mentioned I’d taken that MBTI test and what the result was (INFP). Josh mentioned his dad used to administer something like that in his job. I suggested he do one, because I suspected he was the same as me, or at least something close. I put him onto that site, 16 Personalities, where you can do it. He’s pretty sure he’s at least an IN. I’ll be interested in the results, if he does it.
Sunday, 2 February, 2025



Back at his place, I peeked into some of the rooms that had been opened up due to his sister’s stay. The front room was full of boxes containing mysterious papers and other items. On the veranda, Asahi’s in hand, I asked Josh about them. They were mostly relics of his father’s and Josh had never had the time or bothered to look into them. He said they’d found a strange briefcase that had a combination lock. Some of his friends were able to open it, and it contained an old photo of a very young Josh with his mother who, as I mentioned in the previous Conversation entry, died when he was about one. Who knows what else is in there? As a library worker, the challenge and fun of sorting through that ‘archive’ would be irresistible to me. There would definitely be his dad’s thesis on political cartoonists in there, for one. Josh mentioned his mother also wrote a thesis paper. It was on Virginia Woolf. That is so typical of Josh’s family. No wonder he turned out so interesting. I wonder if the thesis is in there too.
Sunday, 9 March, 2025



The meal with Josh was a bit different this time as we had company, namely Josh’s friend’s Gary and Sadg, a married couple, and Anthony. We were back at Kang’s Chinese eating up a mess of teriyaki chicken. Josh didn’t say much while we ‘talkers’ yakked away. I recounted my day at the recent Knotfest concert, and even mentioned the run-in with the possum when Anthony asked me about my car. At one point Gary mentioned having to do the Australian Citizenship test (he’s Canadian) and one of the questions was about cricketer Don Bradman. This got me wondering if there was a patriotic musical question, say like who did Eagle Rock? Gary couldn’t answer it, but he kind of got close (thought the singer, Ross Wilson, might have played down Healesville way recently – which he did). I think this question should be MANDATORY for all potential Australian citizens.
After saying goodbye to Gary and Sadg, we went back to Josh’s place for some Asahi’s on the veranda. Again, Josh was pretty quiet, so it was mainly me and Anthony talking mainly about our jobs (he’s a road signaler) with an occasional rant against Capitalism from me. Have to admit I felt a bit relieved not having all the pressure to keep the conversation going on me, and having someone I could engage with more than Josh. There are often long stretches of silence when it’s just me and him sitting there on the veranda. I mean, it’s okay, it’s mainly ‘comfortable silence’ and just what you get when you have two introverts sitting together.
I still think maybe I should have bought those Doug Parkinson albums…
Sunday, 30 March, 2025



One of the main items of business we had today was to sort out the payment I’d made for his internet homepage subscription. It had come due and needed to be paid if he was going to keep it going. A couple of years back he had me set up a site about his father’s work called the AB-Institute. The AB is for Alastair Bain, his dad, who was a scholar and psychologist. Josh has a bunch of articles written by various scholars around areas to do with his father’s study and had me put them up on the site. It’s still very much a work in progress, and Josh has had help from others with it, but I’ve mainly been the one to co-ordinate and design the site. Main problem has been I just haven’t had the time to work on it. Ah well, the things you do for friends.






Back at Josh’s place on the veranda it was mostly chillout time with beers and enjoying the quiet and sunshine. Josh was mostly quiet so I blabbed occasionally about my boring life. I mentioned the upcoming trip to England I’m taking with my sister and asked where he’d want to go if he were to go back to England (he was born there). Apart from visiting some relatives over there, he didn’t have one destination in mind. I pushed for visiting Abbey Road and he admitted he’d like to see the studio, if it were possible. I mentioned a teacher friend I’d known who got the tour because his sister was married to the singer in Underworld, who were recording there at the time when he visited. Lucky guy. I tried to interest Josh in some of those Eric Alper questions I’ve been checking out on Twitter and went with his ‘What’s a 10-10 album for you? Josh offered Tori Amos’ Little Earthquakes. I could think of a bunch but only mentioned Lamb Lies Down On Broadway by Genesis. Surely the main criteria would be there isn’t a bad song on the album – though I have to admit there are some instrumental passages on there I find a bit superfluous. I told Josh about the Encyclopedia of Australian Rock and Pop I’m going through and mentioned how, out of all those bands and artists, there isn’t one mention of his band The Going Away Party. Sacrilege! He agreed heartily.
Sunday, 20 April, 2025



On the way back to Josh’s place I played him a song I thought he’d like. It was FTS by Blackpink Jennie (I’d been listening to the album). When the chorus hit he did indeed laugh, because it goes ‘Fuck That Shit’. Despite the aggressive chorus line it’s actually a pretty mellow slow hip hop. He mentioned it reminded him of a poem he wrote when he was in High School (he went to Uni High – very prestigious). It was actually based on or inspired by TS Elliot’s Love Song of Alfred Prufrock. He actually wanted the line ‘Fuck This Shit’ with his yearbook photo, but they made it ‘Stuff This Shit’ instead. He didn’t like his senior VCE years. I wanted to see this yearbook, but he said he had it somewhere tucked away in the house. I mentioned how I got an A for an essay I wrote on The Wasteland in College. He said his mum had written a thesis on Elliot. So we were all down with old TS. The conversation moved to CS Lewis, the writer of the Narnia stories. We talked about the film, Shadowlands, the story of Lewis’s tragic relationship with his American wife. Anthony Hopkins played Lewis, Debra Winger played Joy Davidman, the wife. A terrific film and amazing true story. I’m always surprised by what Josh has and hasn’t seen since he doesn’t own a television.
Sunday, 25 May, 2025



Josh and I were at the pub and had much to discuss. Me with my news about the Steve Kilbey concert and London travels planning update, he with his recent jaunt to Confest and the latest open mic at the Herd that I missed. He mentioned Jim Cairns was the one who started Confest back in the 1970s. I remembered him selling copies of his books at Monash. It apparently went well, but Josh didn’t put on any sessions of his own. Songs he played with Isaak at the Herd: Sometimes When We Touch and that Jake Bugg song. I showed him some of my Jack Frost pics. I told him about wanting to go to Ireland and he mentioned a place in the south west there where there’s an island that was used by monks. It’s the same island that was used in the Star Wars reboots, where Luke goes in hiding. I told Josh about that report where Trump is cutting funding to that children’s network because it’s considered too woke. I mentioned Mr Roberts, whose program is or used to be on that network. Josh is a big fan of his and that film about him, A Beautiful Day in the Neighbourhood. This reminded Josh of a video he’d seen of Mr Roberts testifying to a government funding committee for more funding. He said he’d send me the link.



Later I got Josh’s link to that video about Mr Roberts. It was completely adorable. Mr Robert’s petition included reciting the lyrics of a song about children and how they needed hope. The guy who headed the committee looked like an older Clark Gable and couldn’t be more supportive of Mr Robert’s petition. He granted the funding to the tune of twenty million dollars on the spot. They were all adorable.
Sunday, 15 June, 2025



On the drive down to Healesville I listened to the Tron Legacy soundtrack by Daft Punk. It was actually a bit disappointing. Most of it sounded like generic soundtrack music. A couple of the songs, mainly Adagio, End of Line, and Derezzed, sounded like typical Daft Punk or were at least extended music pieces, but the rest were pretty short and unmemorable.
Josh has just been recovering from a bout of Covid. His symptoms were strange, though. He was walking home when he had an uncontrollable urge to move to the left, and subsequently he ended up in the middle of the road and nearly got hit by a car. Fortunately the driver stopped and took him to the local hospital where he was diagnosed. We talked about this and Josh still isn’t sure if it was because of the Covid or something else. He was given a catscan that showed clear. Anyway, he’s better now and was even able to attend a recent open mic at the Herd, which I didn’t attend. He’s still doing a lot of cover songs, this time being I Don’t Like Monday, a Jake Bugg song and Sometimes When We Touch. He said he might try some of his own songs again soon, but with a piano arrangement. I told him a bit about the Nmixx concert I attended and my recent viewing of Tron Legacy. I mentioned the surprising Zen elements in the film, and the way Jeff Bridges’ Flynn character preached stillness rather than action at times – completely negating the reason most films exist. Josh liked this and suggested I read a book about Zen that his father had. It’s a film I think he’d like. But he doesn’t have a TV or player.



Sunday, 6 July, 2025 (plus Open Mic at The Herd)



On the drive to Healesville today I listened to some Emmylou Harris from her amazing Wrecking Ball album. This was actually the Expanded Edition which includes an extra disc of demos and unreleased songs. One of the most interesting tracks was an early version of Where Will I Be. It’s just bare bones, stripped back, but Emmylou seems to have already worked out her approach to the song, sounding almost identical to the finished product. There’s also a nice fast Appalachian version of Deeper Well.
In Healesville, Josh and I were having another pub meal with a nice spot near the fireplace on this cold day. The pub is way more atmospheric than the Chinese place. Josh said he has another open mic at The Herd this week. He said there would be some surprise, so I should come. He wouldn’t say any more than that. I wonder what it is? I’ll have to go! I mentioned some of my plans for the upcoming England trip. I’ve decided I must see the Thousand Acre Wood, namely Winnie the Pooh country in Sussex. As soon as I mentioned it Josh perked up and said ‘Pooh stix!’ Exactly. He actually thought the world of Winnie the Pooh was an imaginary place that didn’t exist. But yes, it’s where AA Milne and Christopher Robin lived and everything is there as he describes it, including the bridge across the creek where Pooh and Co play their Pooh stix.
Back at Josh’s place, in front of another fireplace, we chatted on various themes but mostly sat in companionable silence. Josh mentioned the recent Confest he went to, how his car was stopped by police with sniffer dogs to check for drugs. There weren’t any, but his driver’s brother apparently smoked weed in the car from time to time. Josh said he patted the sniffer dog as it did its job. The cops didn’t mind, but I mentioned you’re not supposed to pat Worker dogs whilst they’re on the job. There’s something about the friendly gesture that throws them off their responsible task and confuses them. Josh then mentioned another time at Confest where he and his friends smuggled in someone who didn’t have a ticket. This reminded me of the time me and my younger brother got smuggled into a drive-in movie by our brother in law back in the day. It 


On the mantle piece above the fireplace there’s a sports award statue and I asked Josh about it. It was his dad’s for a Judo tournament he participated in. So he was not only a scholar but a sportsman. A man of many talents. I talked about my brief sports career, playing cricket in the Under 16s, then later playing baseball for my local team, the Rams. I’m not a sporty type, but I love baseball and wanted to experience it as a player. I think fondly of my baseball years, even though I wasn’t a great player. Josh recounted his time on the school relay team when they buggered up their chances with a missed handover because the signal was changed – but I think I’ve mentioned that before. So, neither of us are particularly sporty, but we’ve both served. But yeah, this afternoon was mostly about staring into the fire and dreaming our dreamy dreams.



Sunday, 20 July, 2025



There seemed to be a bit of a Paul Simon theme to our talk today. It started when Josh mentioned, in our usual Chinese eatery, he might do a cover of the S&G song America at his next open mic. I wondered if this was a good idea as the song is very guitar-based and Josh would be performing it with Isak, who plays piano. And thinking of Simon in general put me in mind of the part he had in Woody Allen’s film Annie Hall. I especially loved that bit of business Simon’s West Coast producer character does in the scene where he invites Diane Keaton’s Annie to a party. So smarmy. Later, at his place, I talked about the Bangles biography I read, and their recording of Hazy Shade of Winter came up. Then we got to talking about the poets Roberts Frost and Burns who were referenced in a recent NYT mini-crossword and Josh mentioned how Simon referenced Emily Dickinson and Robert Frost in The Only Living Boy In New York. What a great song that is. I especially like Everything But the Girl‘s version. I even had a dream about it the other day.
Away from Paul Simon, Josh mentioned the 9/11 videos he’s been checking out on Youtube. I’m not sure what sparked that, but his interests do tend to go to many strange places. For my part, I saw on Youtube a video of The Beatles doing I Feel Fine that I hadn’t seen before. It was kind of cool for about ten seconds when Paul and John walked onto a set that looked like a small gym and John started singing. Then the camera cut to George looking confused and not singing along in time. He’s standing next to an upright punching bag that doubles as his ‘microphone’. Then Ringo runs on and proceeds to furiously pedal the bicycle on the stand there. It’s sort of funny because, instead of his drumkit, he’s ‘playing’ the bike. I see now why the clip has not been given wider circulation, however promising it looked initially. I also gave Josh a brief review of the Tori Amos book, Resistance, I finished the other day. He seemed appreciative, but I didn’t suggest he borrow a copy, because he just doesn’t read these days. So no Tori or Emily Dickinson or Robert Frost for him. He’s the only living boy in Healesville.
…And thaaat’s it, that’s all the Conversations With Josh I wrote about – although there have since been more. Hope you enjoyed the conversations…

